87: The Silent Struggle of Parenting Differently-Wired Kids [Parenting Neurodivergence Series]
The journey of raising a child who's wired differently, with or without an official neurodivergent diagnosis, often begins with a creeping sense that something isn't quite as expected. As realization dawns, parents—often mothers—find themselves thrust into a world they never anticipated, one filled with confusing terms, endless appointments, and the crushing weight of being their child's sole advocate.
And if the other parent or family members don’t see the differences in the child, the mother can feel even more isolated.
The loneliness is palpable. It seeps into every aspect of life, from strained partnerships to awkward social gatherings. One parent, usually the mother, becomes the family's neurodiversity expert overnight, juggling research, therapies, and school meetings while their partner remains in denial or overwhelmed. The disconnect can feel like a betrayal, amplifying the isolation.
Venturing outside the home brings its own set of challenges. Simple outings become complex calculations of sensory triggers and potential meltdowns. Well-meaning friends and family offer outdated advice, failing to grasp the daily struggles. Schools push back, demanding labels before offering support. The constant battle to be heard and understood drains every ounce of energy.
In this week’s episode, we’re tackling the raw emotions of parents on the front lines of neurodiversity. We explore the gut-wrenching loneliness, the frustration of misunderstood children, and the exhaustion of constantly swimming against the tide. But amidst the struggle, we also uncover the strength that emerges—a fierce determination to create a world that embraces and celebrates our children's unique minds.
For parents feeling lost and alone, this conversation offers a lifeline of understanding and solidarity. It's time to shine a light on the hidden struggles and triumphs of raising neurodiverse children, fostering a community where no parent has to face this journey alone.
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With a Masters in Education from Vanderbilt, Kambria has been creating trainings and teaching adult learners for over 20 years. As the Director of Education and Quality Improvement at Stanford Medical School, she created ease in complex systems, thereby giving medical trainees successful learning experiences. Now, as a dedicated mom, therapist, and EMDR Consultant, Kambria knows what it means to do things efficiently, effectively, and in a learner-centered way. When she isn't podcasting or creating online courses, you can find Kambria playing with her twins on a beach in California.
